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Why Do I Feel So Exhausted and Anxious When I’ve Coped With Worse Stress Before?
Have you ever found yourself thinking: “I’ve been through far worse than this… so why do I feel so overwhelmed now?” Many people feel confused, frustrated or even ashamed when anxiety, exhaustion or emotional overwhelm appear during what seems like a calmer or more stable period in life. It can feel as though you’re failing, losing resilience, or “not coping properly.” Many people describe feeling capable, responsible and used to holding everything together - which is often w
natalieleslie
Feb 104 min read


The Role of AI in Therapeutic Settings: Balancing Innovation and Integrity
In recent years, artificial intelligence (AI) has begun to play an increasingly visible role in discussions about mental health and wellbeing. This brings both curiosity and concern for many people, alongside important ethical questions. As a therapist, and as someone who has recently completed training in AI and explored its implications in supervision, I have spent time reflecting on how AI might be used thoughtfully, responsibly and always in ways that place clients’ wellb
natalieleslie
Jan 282 min read


What Prevents People from Accessing Therapy?
A gentle look at what might be getting in the way... Deciding to see a therapist can feel like a tender step. For many, it’s a quiet act of courage. Yet so many people who could benefit from counselling never reach out - not because they don’t feel they want to reach out for support, but because something inside feels unsure. Before someone makes contact, there are often emotional, practical or personal barriers. Here are some of the most common reasons people avoid starting
natalieleslie
Dec 1, 20252 min read


A New Moment for Men’s Mental Health in England
The UK has launched its first-ever Men’s Health Strategy in England - a 10-year plan to support men’s physical and emotional wellbeing. For many men, especially younger men, this may be the first sign that their struggles are being taken seriously. As a person centred, emotion focused counsellor working with men’s mental health and young adult therapy, I feel a quiet sense of hope. Not because change happens overnight but because the message is clear: Your mental health matte
natalieleslie
Nov 23, 20252 min read


Counselling for Grief and Loss - client-centred, emotion-focused work with somatic awareness
You may be carrying a quiet sadness, a heaviness that follows you, or a sense of something missing that you can’t quite name. Loss can appear in many forms - not only the death of a loved one, but also changes, transitions or unmet expectations. You might still be “getting by,” but life doesn’t feel like it used to. I work from a client-centred, emotion-focused stance, paying close attention to what the body is telling us. For many people, grief lands physically: a tightness
natalieleslie
Nov 20, 20252 min read


🌿 Finding Your Way Through Depression and Anxiety with Emotion-Focused, Client-Centred Therapy
I offer emotion-focused & client-centred talking therapy - a gentle approach that supports you to explore what’s happening inside, at your own paceRather than giving advice or labels, together we focus on understanding your emotions and experiences more deeply, creating a safe, confidential space where you can express what you might not feel able to say elsewhere - without judgment or pressure. This way of working helps you reconnect with your natural capacity for self-under
natalieleslie
Nov 5, 20252 min read


Exploring Breath-Body-Mind™: A Gentle Path to Emotional Balance
Over the past few years, I’ve become increasingly curious about how our breath, body and emotions are deeply connected - how the way we breathe can shift how we feel, think and respond to the world around us. In my work as a counsellor I often see how stress, grief and anxiety can live in the body just as much as in the mind. This is what first drew me to learn more about Breath-Body-Mind™ (BBM) — an evidence-based, integrative mind-body approach that uses breathing, gentle m
natalieleslie
Oct 30, 20252 min read


Feeling stuck or anxious as summer approaches? You’re not alone...
As the days grow longer and the summer months approach, there’s often an unspoken expectation that we should feel happier, more energetic...
natalieleslie
May 24, 20252 min read
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